You set your own value. Where ever you go there you are. You are a culmination of all your past good,bad and otherwise decisions. Every thing you have went through has brought you to where you are today. You set your value according to your level of understanding of where you are today. Hear Trent Thomas speak on who are you in recovery on Iheart and Buzzsprout. https://www.buzzsprout.com/2261131/episodes.
Recovery is a process of decisions.